Lol. When I had joined Ordo. I was shy and thinking are people going to like me. At times I will still have my nerves when speaking people on so many reasons on my nerves. The more had I had work along side people and the more they got knew me personally. I have gained some really cool friendship in Ordo. I agree with everyone's statement in this thread. Everyone is willing to help if you just muster up the courage to put forth the effort. Ordo as a whole will look out for you. You are part of Ordo and as Rein had put, brotherhood, sisterhood, family. We have a open door policy for a reason.