Premptively, I would like to start a discussion on methods of handling grief. For many being alone is their answer, for some getting angry irrationally, for others, like myself, we make the situation less intense by joking about it. For many of you 9-11 was a strike close to home, or...for some at home. The question i am raising is, these days, what is poor taste? if the only way one can cope is by joking about things that other's find incredibly sad, what can a man do?