I see no problems with how we assault or defend, nor with how we accept our winnings or defeats. We play fair, escalate force when needed and we never have an entirely bad attitude in battle. Sure we may fight hard to win, but isn't that the idea? Even with that most groups don't mind us attacking a lot of the times they actually IM the OIC and say they had fun. There is a lot to be said just with that statement as I have NEVER experienced that with other groups I was in. We play fair, but fight hard. We are a challenge, but are not completely absurd. Everyone, even the opposing force, has fun. Sounds like victory to me.